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*Don't marry someone you can live with marry someone you'd rather not live without.

*Don't get married with the hope that your partner will change in the future.  What they are now, they will probably be more of the same later.

*A good lover is a man or woman who can satisfy and be satified with one person of the opposite sex for a lifetime.

*Until you're content being single, contentment will elude you in marriage.

*Observe the person you are dating in a variety of settings.  This will help you to be a better judge of their true character which is what you'll have to live with once you're married.